I just got done with my anatomy and physiology class for today. The teacher said something that really irked me and I debated sticking around after class to talk to her about it. A lot of other people stayed to ask her questions so I just left. I feel like I chickened out.
I can't even remember what point she was trying to emphasize but she tried to by saying, "It's like being pregnant, you either are or you aren't, you're not 'a little bit pregnant'."
I beg to differ. I've been 'a little bit pregnant' more times than I care to count. I wanted to explain to her that it's when you've had multiple miscarriages and you get pregnant again and you know it's not a sure bet so you're only a little bit pregnant. Or you've had yet another miscarriage, you were a little bit pregnant. At this point my philosophy is: being pregnant means reaching the end goal: a live, breathing on its own, screaming/crying baby. Up until that goal is reached I'll have only experienced a little bit pregnant.
6 years ago

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I understand exactly what you're saying. It was probably good that you didn't stay though, because she wouldn't get it and you would be even more frustrated.
(((HUGS)))
Agreed!!
Keep your head up! I know at times it can be hard but you have to in order to eventually move on. I have also experienced multiple m/c and we have yet to have a healthy living baby on our own. I have trained my brain to think we WILL have a baby someday and that seems to help my mood when im down in the dumps. And Kelly is right... Take care oxoxo
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